When Fate Meets Destiny

They say that time heals all wounds.

I disagree.

I believe that God has a purpose for all of us.  And true healing comes from him.

A year ago life seemed strange to me.  A new beginning with myself and adjusting to changes.  Hurting someone along the way as I heard God tell me " You are not to be in a relationship right now, this is not what I want you to be doing".  Cant say I regret my decision however.  It was God I heard.  I believed every step of the way.  

I was faithful to The Lord and walked with him.  Guiding me every day.  Having an amazing support system and still hearing God.  "BE STIlL" He said.  And still it was.  Learning and growing with him as he held me close to him and slowly healing my broken heart.  I was fine, not needing anything/but me and my little family and friends, my support system.   It seemed as the entire year, I was listening to Skip Heitzig and Pastor Dan Carroll at Water of Life Church and every lesson seemed to be about love and relationships. I learned to so much about the differences of women and men and relationships and what a relationship guided by God is to be like.   We recently starting learning about Abraham and Faith.  

Just when I was comfortable with myself and my wounds have been healed, tying up loose ends and being truly happy in my life, a wrench comes in.  Not one to take apart my life but to finish completing it.  Making me realize that every decision I had made prepared me for this wonderful man that was never a part of my plan, but now I cannot live without.  I heard God telling me "you deserve this, and I have blessed both of you with love that you will have for eachother and a friend for life". I can honestly say that he is everything that I have been asking for from God.  From day 1, this man has been the friend he was to be initially and respectful.  Not realizing that this man that I met along time ago would be the one that God intended for me, but since the first date, he was familiar as if he was hand picked for me and with almost every thing we have in commong.  God blessed me with the very desires of my heart that I have been asking for.  From me being the goofy chick that I am to accepting every bit of me and loving me for being me and sharing the same views on a relationship.  He does not love me for what I have been or what I will become. But accepts every part of me without judgment.  

I refuse to give away too much, as our life will be private.  But the one thing that all will realize and know is that HE makes me happy and I cannot wait to finish out my life with him.

Better still, this is not just a decision for me, but a blessing that my children are in favor of.  

All is right because God has blessed us with eachother.